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Andrea M's avatar

Thank you, thank you, thank you for this!!! I love that you are advocating for a return to addressing people as "Mr." and "Mrs." For years, even before I knew it had so much meaning behind it, I have been wishing we could still be formal in society. That is one of the things I love at my TLM parish -- that all of us young people are expected to address our elders by title and last name. I try to incorporate that into my life away from the parish, but it is often hard because most of my elders act so friendly and only give me their first name. I don't mean that they shouldn't be friendly, but they are so in a way that would make me addressing them as "Mr." or "Mrs." seem out-of-place. I wish we could incorporate that, too, among the youth, at least when it comes to young men and young women interacting with each other. I have yet to hear someone seriously address me as "Miss"! I'm really looking forward to it.

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Carolyn MK's avatar

I am a big proponent of this expansive view of "liturgy" applied as a lifestyle, rather than a narrow to-do list. I would argue though that some of the “secular” seasonally-themed children’s books do have a place alongside (not in place of) books that focus on liturgical seasons. Kids learn that the natural as well as the Church year is cyclical and liturgical in its own way, and that their favorite characters are bound by the same seasons. In my opinion if I'm checking out books about construction vehicles anyway, it's an added bonus to have them relate to the seasonal rhythms at even a surface level–and some of them do go far beyond the surface! (Although if there's a book out there about excavators and the religious meaning of Easter, count me in).

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